Starting a family requires a bit more planning when you're a mother-to-be with diabetes. But you can take some simple steps to make sure your pregnancy and your baby are safe and healthy.

Ø  Go to the Doctor

One of your first tasks should be to set up an appointment about 3 to 6 months before you plan to conceive. At that visit, your doctor will:

• Order an A1C test to find out if your diabetes is controlled well enough for you to stop using birth control
• Test your blood and urine for diabetes-related kidney complications
• Look for other problems linked with diabetes, like organ, nerve, or  heart damage
• Take your blood pressure 
• Rule out thyroid disease
• Check your cholesterol and levels of a type of blood fat called triglycerides
• Suggest an eye exam to screen for glaucoma, cataracts, and retinopathy
• Recommend pre-conception counseling

Ø  What Is Pre-Conception Counseling?

This is another important step for women with diabetes. This educational session will help you get physically and emotionally prepared -- and healthy -- for pregnancy. At this appointment, you and the doctor will discuss:

• Your  weight:Try to reach your ideal body weight before you get pregnant. If you have a few extra pounds, losing them will help prevent complications from diabetes. If you’re underweight, adding pounds can make you less likely to deliver a low-birth-weight baby.
• Your lifestyle:If you smoke or drink alcohol, you'll need to stop. Smoking during pregnancy affects both you and the baby before, during, and after birth. When you smoke, the nicotine (the addictive substance in cigarettes), carbon monoxide, and other toxins travel through your bloodstream and go directly to your baby. These substances can:
• Deprive you and the baby of oxygen
• Raise the baby’s heart rate
• Boost the chances of miscarriage and stillbirth
• Increase the odds of a premature, low-birth-weight baby
• Make the baby prone to future problems with the lungs or breathing

Drinking alcohol during pregnancy can lead to a pattern of birth defects that includes mental retardation and certain physical problems. No amount of alcohol is known to be safe while pregnant, and there’s no safe time during pregnancy to drink.

• Prenatal vitamins:At least one month before you get pregnant, start taking a daily vitamin that has folic acid after taking doctor’s opinion.
• Your blood sugar:The doctor will check to see if your blood sugar is in control. This is key, because you may not know you’re pregnant until the baby has been growing for 2-4 weeks. High blood sugar during the first 13 weeks can cause birth defects, lead to miscarriage, and put you at risk for diabetes complications. 

• Your medications :You'll need more insulin during pregnancy, especially the last 3 months. The doctor will tell you how to adjust your dose. If you take diabetes pills, the doctor may switch you to insulin, because some of these drugs can harm the baby. So can some high blood pressure treatments used with diabetes. Bottom line: Discuss all medications you take with your doctor.
• Meal planning:You’ll need to make some changes while you’re pregnant to avoid swings in blood sugar levels. You’ll also need to take in more calories to feed your growing baby. Consult with dietician for proper meal planning.